Who's crying on Victoria Beckham's shoulder?
By Rav Singh
HEARTBROKEN CHERYL COLE is crying on the shoulder of fellow WAG VICTORIA BECKHAM after her marriage crisis.
I can reveal the distraught Girls Aloud star phoned Posh TWICE this week following revelations her footballer hubby ASHLEY was a love rat.
Cheryl, 24, walked out on him after more sordid details of his cheating emerged.
Hot pics of Vic & Cheryl together after the jump.
Last week we told how she vowed to stand by her man despite his drunken night of shame with blonde hairdresser AIMEE WALTON.
But further reports of a fling with glamour model BROOKE HEALEY and him chasing Page 3 beauty JAKKI DEGG after marrying Cheryl have ended that.
She's desperate for advice on how to cope with the betrayal and knows Posh has also come through a rocky patch with DAVID BECKHAM.
The two became pals on the WAGs circuit and Cheryl knew she could rely on Posh for advice.
And today I can share with you her four-point plan to get back on track (above).
The Spice Girl told Cheryl: "Get your HAIR done, put on some MAKE-UP, treat yourself to a POSH FROCK then BRAVE the world."
I'm told: "Victoria has strong views on this situation but feels she's in a good position to help Cheryl through it.
"She told her she has to be honest with herself and if she believes she can save the marriage to do everything to make that happen.
"She was clear that Cheryl should not bury herself away. She told her to get her hair done, put on some expensive make-up and buy an amazing new outfit to get out and face the world."
It's going to be tough for Cheryl who had a dramatic showdown with Ashley on the phone on Wednesday night. She sobbed: "I can't go on—give me a reason to stay with you."
Ashley replied: "Because I love you. It was a mistake. I was drunk."
Cheryl's so stressed that her hair has even begun to fall out. My source went on: "She's hardly eating anything either. She feels so betrayed. She's a broken woman."
But I gather her Girls Aloud bandmates want her to dump Ashley. My source added: "They think she'll be better off without him.
Victoria's advice is opposite to the girls. It'll be interesting to see whose she takes."
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Comment number: 99748504
Offensive? Report commentChez you are a strong minded and willed person so just divorce him before things get out of hand
Comment number: 99748680
Offensive? Report commentSorry but who gives a rats **** - there are more important things going on in the world.
Cheat on club - Cheat on wife. Once a cheat always a cheat.
Comment number: 99748694
Offensive? Report commentHope Cheryl dumps the loser. She's so much better off without him.
Posh would be lost without brand Beckham. She likely stayed with him for the money, brand and fame. Cheryl has all of that without CAshley.
Comment number: 99752076
Offensive? Report commentYep, once a cheat always a cheat, cheated on his Club that "he loved" cheated on his wife that "he loved" blokes a losers....
Comment number: 99752150
Offensive? Report commentI think Cheryl should stay with Ashley, Im sure he is innocent all these girls who sell stories should not get paid!
I wonder if the papers would have anything to write!
Comment number: 99762468
Offensive? Report commentyes get rid just because hes a footballer and has money some think they can have anybody never get involved with a fooballer
Comment number: 99762954
Offensive? Report commentget rid cheryl there seem to be alot of storys about footballers at the minute there all numbers just like us difference is they have money and think there different. he will do it again and again you deserve better
Comment number: 99766108
Offensive? Report commentCheryl should listen to her groupmates and not Posh Spice who clearly puts fame and fortune above love and respect.
The womans a media Ho with no talent and a terrible example to follow
Comment number: 99771832
Offensive? Report commentCheryl should hold on very tight to her man.Two wrongs does not make a right. Yah, Ashley betrayed her but i am sure he has lean`t a very great lesson from this.99% of men does this at one time or the other in our life.
Comment number: 99775080
Offensive? Report commentdont listen 2 any one else only you can decide what to do just be happy; ashley as got alot to prove to you and to other people he will always be watched no matter what he does storys will always be their true or not leopards can change their spots itf they truly love sumone.
Comment number: 99775242
Offensive? Report commentMy man cheated on a drunken lads w/end in Spain, with a slapper he met in a bar, I found out from his mobile phone when he returned they still texted each other. I confronted him and he begged forgiveness, said he couldn't remember much about what happened as he was so drunk. But he was secretly texting her, I found out after he disappeared one weekend, he said why can't a man love 2 women? I kicked him out of my house, but 2 years on I still love him and will never trust a man ever again. Things will never be the same, the magic disappears and you will be heartbroken, something you never get over. Once a cheat always a cheat, dump him, men have to know that they cannot have their cake and eat it.
Comment number: 99776632
Offensive? Report commentOnly Cheryl can decide what to do. If she can brave it out - if she loves him enough to tough out the jibes and take him back - then she will have a fight on her hands all her life, but it might be worth it for her. Personally I detest the man and think he has not done a thing for Chelsea.
Comment number: 99777168
Offensive? Report commentCheryl only you can decide whether u can forgive him for putting your health at risk by going with these other women and not using protection. How can u trust someone who had so little regard for you just because he was drunk. U have to ask yourself would he forgive u if the boot was on the other foot? Good luck but u will only have heartache if u stay wondering what he is up to when u aint with him. I personally think with what has gone on u will ultimately make each others lives hell as the trust has gone.
Comment number: 99778176
Offensive? Report commentlisten to the girls in the band. They know you better than hoyty toyty Beckham. She should have ditched Beckham too....but she was desperate for recognition....you`ve already got that Cheryl. Head up high and enjoy life, you wont be alone for long.
Comment number: 99778700
Offensive? Report commentthe situation between Victoria+David and Cheryl+Ashley is much different actually. first of all, Victoria+David has been married for 5 years and they already had 2 kids between them when the scandal happened. so, naturally..Victoria will think first of all about her sons! maybe that's why she decided to stay with David..and probably because her love for David was still going strong at the time..and the scandal against David has never been proved (those ******* even got paid for their stories! WTF!). either way..their kids played a very important role. while for Cheryl+Ashley...they have no kids. only love and trust stand between them. for this..i'll take Victoria's advice - Cheryl has to ask herself whether she still love Ashley so much, whether she can live without Ashley, and to consider Ashley's reasons too (if this is the first time Ashley cheated on her). i hope Cheryl won't make decision that she'll regret later.
Comment number: 99779736
Offensive? Report commentyes dump him,he had cheated on you and will do it again just like my husband do that to me for 11years and i have 4 kids and i put my kids first so i dump him and my life is much better and more relax without worry what he up to?. you are beaufiul and you can get any man who will respect you.
Comment number: 99779872
Offensive? Report commentCheryl you are much stronger than Victoria Beckham. She desperately needs David because she knows without him she is nothing but a has been pop star who's microphone was always turned down and never had any solo parts anyway! The world knows he was with Rebecca Loos, even Victoria Beckham yet they put on a front and try to pretend it never happened. She now lives in a world wondering when it will happen again. Don't take counsel from walk-overs and weak people - turn to your strong friends who have your best interests at heart - your confidence, your self-esteem and self-respect. If you stick with this guy, these will all falter. Unlike VB, you are talented, young, strong and beautiful and once a man has done this to you once, and you forgive him it makes it easier for them to do it again. I have been on the receiving end of this with different men and in the beginning it is all tears and 'i love you's, it won't happen again' but if they are built that way then it is only a matter of time. And do you really want to spend the rest of your life wondering 'where is he' and 'what is he up to', wondering when the next Sunday broadsheet is going to print details of your private life? No, go forth and conquer you will find someone who truly deserves you x
Comment number: 99780854
Offensive? Report commentcole has them shifty eyes and he sure hasnt an ounce of honour!
Not for the clubs that made him or a wife that loves him
PURE shiftyness through and through
Comment number: 99781068
Offensive? Report commentCheryl - if he'd been sober, would you really be in this predicament ? Deal with the REAL issues. No change, No chance. From now on would he be happy ''checking in'' so to speak, then you just may become his mother not his wife. I respected my husband long before I loved him. That alone stops any stupid drunken behaviour. Good luck !!
Comment number: 99781144
Offensive? Report commentShe should walk, Cheryl has everything going for her i wish i had that much going for me when my partner cheated on me three times i would of been long gone, and it doesn't work when you stay things may seem ok for years but one day that resentment comes back to haunt you, it did me, me and my partner ended up having a child and after i had my son those feelings of resentment and betrayal came flooding back, now i am stuck and very unhappy GET OUT now Cheryl.
Comment number: 99781208
Offensive? Report commentIts ridiculous the way people use this to attack Victoria, nobody knows what happened or what victoria went through, your all just annoyed that she didnt air it in public.
As for Cheryl, nobody knows if she has been in contact with Victoria, and even if she has, what victoria has said.
Its their lives and they should be free to live it as they see fit.
As for victoria staying for david for fame and because she's not very strong, what rubbish, she is more famous for being in the fashion industry, nothing to do with David!! and staying with him if the affair did happen makes her stronger if you ask me, she deeply loves her husband and the father to her three children.
Comment number: 99782622
Offensive? Report commentGet rid. He'll do it again...........and again.............and again.
By then you'll have three kids and there will be no way out.
Listen to your friends. Not Posh.
I can only gather that you are taking advice from Posh because you secretly want to stay with him.
Dont.
Comment number: 99783030
Offensive? Report commentShe deserves everythings she gets,i find the whole thing funny.
What goes around comes around.
When you start slapping defenceless women in the toilets, you derseved to be humilated in front of the nation.
She is bitchy,feisty,and not very bright,
She needs Ashley, Ashley dont need her!
He has millions,she has couple thousands.
She's just a money Monkey.
No sympathy for a Dumb *****.
Comment number: 99783288
Offensive? Report commentCheryl this is a difficult one that only you, deep down inside, will know what to do. Yes, take advice from Victoria and your Girls Aloud band mates, but then take some time out and pamper yourself and then search your heart - give yourself time and space - after which you'll know what to do. Good luck!
Comment number: 99783292
Offensive? Report commentSorry Cheryl but this is all your fault. You should have known what you were in for when you married this loser. Now face the music and dump him in the process.
Comment number: 99784802
Offensive? Report commentcheryl do not leave him he loves you n u luv him dat is what matters d most it is not bith amy walton who is soooooooooo ugly he comes home to is it. you are 1000000 times better gud luk.
Comment number: 99785272
Offensive? Report commentLeave him and come and join me in Bali. Mind you i go to Perth on the 10th of feb so hurry up
Comment number: 99785934
Offensive? Report commentdont leav him bt he should not hav cheated on u if he does it again leav him buy d way i wanna luk like u
Comment number: 99785948
Offensive? Report commentSkye101 your talking complete rubbish victoria is more famous for being badly dressed than for fashion and the only reason she turned to that is because she failed as a solo artist and needs something to stay in the public eye, just check out her attire when she gate crashed the Princess Diana investigation in Paris. Her appearance their was as vulgar as her dress sense so cheryl should be careful of fashion tips from her. Of course one of the problems in British society is they set these media ho'es and footballers as role models in our country and they prove themselves to be shallow arrogant materialistic unfaithful and greedy constantly.
All you have to do is visit Anfield and see the state of the neighbourhood surronding it to see how much it cares about anything other than itself, football has lost the plot and breeds an arrorgant individual such as Cashley but do you really think Cheryl would of looked at him twice if he was a local taxi driver.
She's finding out the hard way what the modern day footballer is about and it aint bringing cups home
Do you think if Jesus Christ was alive in Britain today he'd spend a moment of his time with any of are so called role models.
My advice is leave the footballers to the shallow gold diggers as they deserve each other
Comment number: 99786088
Offensive? Report commentI stayed with a love rat for 21 years. I knew he was cheating but each time he convinced me he wasn't. We split up and he has moved on with a new woman. Me I could never trust a man again and for the past 3 years I have refused all social invitations as I do not want to meet anybody.
Cheryl I wish you luck but I wish I'd kicked my one out when I found out about the 1st. affair.
Comment number: 99786682
Offensive? Report commentsorry but cheryl once claimed "ashley was offered a chance to play for real madrid but i made him turn it down" well done sweetheart that oh so proud attitude of not at least trying to compromise with your husband will always lead to resentment.I know he has her career but why does either take precedent? and also whats the deal with constantly selling your life to the media and poermanently being in ok magazine? if you want a real marriage you need to live in the real world. Im not saying he should have cheated or that she should forgive him but these two chimps really need to wake up and get real. marriage is hard work every single day, its not all about flashy lifestyles and buying the other person. I hope they resolve it soon and whichever way they do i would seriously advise them to do it without whoring themselves out to some glossy mag
Comment number: 99791056
Offensive? Report commentCheryl, only u can make a decision that suits u. Does he luv u, ain't sure, coz u do not cheat on some1 u care about. He says he was drank, how come he phoned her and sent his "people" to sort her out if he was pregnant. He obviously knew what he had been up to. U do not pretend not to remember but magically beleive u got some1 preggers. If the other gals r to be believed, then he's constantly looking for excitement outside the marital bed as u are probaby busy with yrself and career and neglecting him. Remember yr VOWS, "FOR BETTER, FOR WORSE" Good luck to u all.
Comment number: 99793834
Offensive? Report commentaahh honey the bubble has burst....you are a strong independent girl..and even tho it hurts you know in your heart of hearts its broken ..he obviously thinks he needs more than what hes got (fool) if hes done this in the honeymoon period and without children...bet your bottom dollar he will do it time and time again..this girl (cant even remember her name) has simply outed him as a married cheat and liar .....dont be a push over..but dont give up your search for the dream ..but sadly its not with ashley he broke it good luck girl
Comment number: 99793964
Offensive? Report commentCheryl was the first band member and ironic that she will be the first to go.
Longing for a new life away from England. Spain & Italy being top of the list.
It's Madrid or Milan.
Comment number: 99795376
Offensive? Report commentI FINK CHERYL SHD GIVE HIM 1 LAST CHANCE. MY HUSBAND DID D SAME BUT SINCE I FOUND OUT N WE SORTED IT OUT , NOW HE IS A CHANGED MAN N IF I TELL HIM TO GO TO BED, HE ASK ME WHAT TIME. IT IS VERY PAINFUL THOUGH. GOOD LUCK.
Comment number: 99795910
Offensive? Report commentI think leave him If all these accusations turn out to be true. Cheryl is one of the sexiest women alive..... He'll be punished enough knowing he lost her, he's not that special there's plenty of gorgeous, faithful men who'd love to have a chance with her. Dump him!!!!
Comment number: 99796234
Offensive? Report commentCheryl everyone that says leave him is usually speaking from experience so do listen to them, I know deep down you dont want to and you hope everything will get better but believe me it dont. There will be constant reminders you will never forget and you will bring it up years later. You loose trust and start to resent them, and could waste years only to find that the marriage really isnt working and wished you had left sooner. You deserve better, you are young, beautiful, and talented, you dont need him, good luck girl.x
Comment number: 99798388
Offensive? Report commentu dol waots best and be strong
Comment number: 99799368
Offensive? Report commentu know wat ur doin
Comment number: 99802754
Offensive? Report commentDump him Cheryl Ashley is a no good looser and a waste of space don,t listen to posh spice she is proctecting Beckham brand you are proctecting your self respect this man has humiliated you . Yes face the world and hold your head up high you have done nothing wrong. The song goes I WILL SURVIVE and you will. Good Luck girl.
Comment number: 99802766
Offensive? Report commentDump him Cheryl Ashley is a no good looser and a waste of space don,t listen to posh spice she is proctecting Beckham brand you are proctecting your self respect this man has humiliated you . Yes face the world and hold your head up high you have done nothing wrong. The song goes I WILL SURVIVE and you will. Good Luck girl.
Comment number: 99807078
Offensive? Report commentCheryl's is a better predicament than most women faced with this situation.
She's loaded, doesn't rely on his money, she's probably more famous that him, has no children to consider & is young enough to put this down to experience & find someone who loves her enough not to cheat on her.
Cheryl's always come across as an independant strong willed woman, she's voiced her opinions on cheating men in the past, with the only solution being to dump a man who's cheated.
Now it's hit the fan for her, she's now faced with that agonising choice, dump him & get on with the rest of her life & be thankful they don't have kids, or make a go of things.
I would also think she'd never really be able to forgive him.
I can't understand though why on earth he'd cheat on her? She's stunningly beautiful.
Ashley Cole get a grip & grow up you loser!
Comment number: 99808918
Offensive? Report commentget rid of him,she can do better than him all he does is kick a football around.
Comment number: 99810788
Offensive? Report commentPosh will probably tell her to think about the oodles of money associated with being a footballer's wife and stay with cashley.
Comment number: 99812954
Offensive? Report commenti think cheryl should do as she feels at the end of the day is bad enough your boyfriend cheating on you let alone the whole world knowing.I think its funny when one comes out with it they all start just ignore it if she wants to stay with ashley then she should, who aint taken back a boy who has cheated on them. hope she makes the right choice for herself
Comment number: 99816130
Offensive? Report commentcheryl from one geordie to another...u have come so far on ur own ok so u met and fell in love with ashley along the way but u know wot the way ur feeling at the minute(i know iv been there!)is hurt betrayed sick cant eat cant sleep the knot in ur tummy the tight band round ur heart not knowing what to do and the worst one is he lied to u!
u are so much better than him in the fact that u can turn this round do not b a victim,end it with him now show him u dont need him go and get on with ur life get urself back up here to newcastle a night out on the quayside
and hold ur head up high cause u dont need him i mean that ok ull feel **** for few months maybe longer but so wot u r much stronger and i know u can do it howay man ur a geordie lass!get urself out n bout n im telling u lads will b falling at ur feet the kind u can trust..hope this helps u a little bit cheryl take care xxx
Comment number: 99823052
Offensive? Report commentI think the girl,who says they had sex,with asley,knew what she was doing,and knew she get alot of cash for the story.How could she have sex with someone thats had been sick 3times? I couldnt do that to someone i loved,never mind stranger
Comment number: 99824344
Offensive? Report commentI think Cheryl should leave Ashley, as once a cheater always a cheater, the girls who have come out, are only the ones who have had the guts too..!!
if Cheryl has any sense she will leave it all behind..Get yourself a lush actor..Cheryl such as Gerard Butler!
his gorgeous more in your league..!! You have it all, get yourself a trustworthy fella you can do it..!!! You deserve one, many man would give anything to be with you, believe me xx
Comment number: 99829890
Offensive? Report commentcheryl everybody will try and give you advice no one can stop you wanting to be with him or loving your own instincs will tell you follow your heart and every thing will fall into place
Comment number: 99830120
Offensive? Report commentcheryl follow your own instincs and your heart and you wont go wrong
Comment number: 99832712
Offensive? Report commentStay with him!
I had the same thing done to me-my bf got drunk an flaked out at a party when i was on holiday and another girl sed she'd slept with him. i dumped him but got back with him a week later (thankfully) and it later came out that the girl was lying cos she didn't like me!!
So i sum how don't believe the 1st story - well the sex bit and really don't believe the rest of them
Comment number: 99837596
Offensive? Report commentDump him you can do a lot better than him and meet someone who dose not betray you as he will again.
Comment number: 99845600
Offensive? Report commentLet He/she who has no sin throw the first stone!!!!!!There are more holier-than-thou people in this world!
Cherly, the world is looking upon you to make a fool of yourself by leaving your husband, all these negative people want to see is a Divorce heading on the newspapers, and then sooner than later after your divorce decree, you will be a forgotten fool!!!People love red-hot headlines, sweetheart you are too sensible for such; please do yourself a favour and just simply think how many cheap women are out there dying to bed footaballers for quick money!!
Cherly, like Victoria, walk with your head high and tell everyone on earth that 'for Better or for Worse you married Ashley - after all you are the only woman who can ever tell him to jump and he asks 'how high my Darling Wife!
Victoria and Cherly just remember that most women in the world would die to be in your positions, ignore all the rude and negative remarks and stand up for your husbands!!
Go on girls, i know you are sensible women, no matter what anyone says!
Comment number: 99847992
Offensive? Report commentonce a cheat, always a cheat. you will never trust him again. arsenal fans will never trust him again. he is a born loser, who has no idea of the good things he has. get shot of him fast.
Comment number: 99903492
Offensive? Report commentcheryl, be the strong women you used to be. once a cheater always a cheater. how could she EVER trust him again if she got back toghter with him...!?
shes deserves sooo much better.
she did everything in the house and NOT him, he dosnet even make a cup of tea too her.
i dont know him but he seems so be an as* h*le!
Comment number: 100036398
Offensive? Report commentHilda if your going to quote wedding vows you might want to include "and to forsake all others" and no i dont think most women of the world would want to be in a position were the husbands betray them whilst the world scoffs and says told you so, thats what you get for marrying an over rated footballer
Comment number: 100174894
Offensive? Report commentGet rid of him Cheryl.
Firstly, he cheated on Arsenal by meeting Mourinho in secret, then he does the dirty on you!
One word, ****!!!
Comment number: 100178938
Offensive? Report commentyou are a stunning sucessful person cheryl and only you no what is right for you and ashley.. listen to wot your friends and family have to say but you make the decision... As for victoria beckham why is everybody givin her a hard time.. this is about Cheryl not victoria!!! VB is just bein a friend and givin advice..no advice is right or wrong..
Good Luck Cheryl...
Comment number: 100286938
Offensive? Report commentpeople dont think before they talk,its a same with these amy did,she didnt think be4 she goes to the media she thoght she was making money not knowing that she destroyed herself and both u and your husband,so Cheryl dont take advise to anyone except your heart,listen to people but dont do what they say they wont be there for you in the near future.or you will stay without a man for the rest of your life cause all men are the same.
Comment number: 100353962
Offensive? Report commentCheryl, I really do think that you should leave the love rat! He clearly cant be trusted when drinking! Anyone who blames Alcohol for betraying the love of your life, the person your supposed to protect and care about is weak. Your better than he is, your a beautiful and talented person who deserves alot better than a midget dwarf like Ashley Cole!
P.S Lets all leave Victoria Beckham alone, the girl is successful and hard working and I think those that slag her off are jealous!
Comment number: 100872294
Offensive? Report commentits one of those situations where you need to follow your head and not your heart, however hard that may be. the problem is that if Cheryl decides to try to make her marriage work, everytime he is out of sight, out with his mates or she is away touring, she will be wondering what he's doing and where he is and that will NEVER change. She will become jealous and possesive and that will eat away her self confidence and destroy her faith in people. She is a strong, successful woman who up until now n ever stood for any crap from anyone and i firmly believe she will make the right decision. He, on the other hand is a footballer, and thats about it. end of. he must feel like a right muppet, i mean come on did you see the girl? he must have very little self respect and even less for his beautiful wife, what a div! Cheryl, in the words of Spike Lee DO THE RIGHT THING!!!!
Comment number: 100961784
Offensive? Report comment2 words get rid .;;;;;;;;;;;
Comment number: 100991438
Offensive? Report commentI think you should dump him, you don't want to be a single parent because that is what will be next, although i do think that ashley is sorry,but you guys are married!and that changes everything he broke your vows, trust the lot. the fact that he told you does not make it o.k! even if aimee is a gold digger and a hoe what does that make ashley? Kick him to the curb not because of what people are saying do it because you love yourself more.
Comment number: 101131114
Offensive? Report commentPosh is only trying to help Cheryl, so why a lot of you feel the need to slag Posh off is beyond me. Yeh, she chose to stand by her husband after the rumours, that was her choice. As this one is Cheryls. All she needs to know is that if she does decide to leave Ashley, she will have her loved ones around her supporting her. If she decides to give it another go, after all, we all make mistakes, then good luck to them both.
Comment number: 103366690
Offensive? Report commentdont leave him cheryl this lass tried to ruin your marriage, she might be lyin you never know, deep down you will still love him so give him one last chance and if he blows that then you leave him, do what you heart tells you to do..x
Comment number: 103993398
Offensive? Report commentAshley use this as a perfect excuse to get out of your boring marriage and go and have some fun! There's plenty of girls like Cheryl out there, just don't make the mistake of getting married again - they're all just after fame & money!
Comment number: 104271086
Offensive? Report commentWat else do you expect when all english ladies want to marry footballer or one celebrity or the other! Anyway Cheryl the only person that you should listening to is yourself, non of these people giving you advice now knows when you and Ashley started and most of the ladies saying negative things now will do otherwise if they are in your own position. If you know you still love him, why dont give him a second chance! who knows he might have learned his lesson; so be courageous and take the bull by the horn, its your life I expected you to know what is good for you. you either save your marriage or break it. If you save your marriage, there are lots to gain but if you break it, what are your gains!!!!
Comment number: 106969050
Offensive? Report commentthe girls was FINE! the guy, not so much