Cheryl Cole's five-point peace deal with Ashley
By Rav Singh
CHEATED Cheryl Cole has told her foul footballer husband Ashley she'll consider taking him back...if he agrees to play by her rules.
If Cole, 27, wants to get back on side with Cheryl, 24, he must agree to a home game plan tougher than any his Chelsea boss Avram Grant could concoct.
The Girls Aloud star's five-point plan insists defender Cole, who cheated with a hairdresser:
"Cheryl is a tough, straight-talking Geordie girl and she was never going to let Ashley back into her life with a beaming smile and open arms," said a source close to the couple.
"He's going to have to work hard to win his place back in Cheryl's heart. That their split was so public made things ten times worse for Cheryl.
"She's a big enough star as it is, but her every move has been put under the microscope at a time when she was struggling to get to grips with what she was feeling.
"This is not just some quick-fix solution.
"She wants to see that Ashley is prepared to make some major changes to his ways and stick to these five points.
"It's her way or the highway on this one, that's for sure."
The two split after revelations in January that Ashley had a boozy fling with Aimee Walton at a friend's flat.
Heartbroken Cheryl's weight has plummeted since the revelations about her husband's infidelity, and last week at the Brit Awards she couldn't bear to stay to see Paul McCartney's grandstand finale because she was so overwhelmed by the sympathetic messages of support from all her showbiz pals.
My source added: "Ashley has begged and begged for another chance.Cheryl has thought long and hard about her decision. It hasn't been easy.
"But Cheryl has a lot of respect for herself and Ashley is going to start appreciating thator he'll be out in the cold for good."
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Comment number: 105414882
Offensive? Report commentReally hope Cheryl Tweedy doesn't take Ashley back. It's not like he was drunk and made a one off mistake (altho i believe drunk people no exactly what they are doing when it comes to being unfaithful). He has done it a few times, and thats only the ones the world knows about. He has no respect for her, and being caught won't change it either. Additionally, she will never forgive or forget what he has done to her. It's a shame she will be pity'd by the public, and remembered for what he has done to her rather than her hits with her band. Shame.
Comment number: 105425420
Offensive? Report commentI feel Cheryl should do what's right for her as it's her life and only she knowns what is right for her. And as for Ashley you look really stuiped this time as you have a beautiful wife. You will never beable to replace if you break her heart again!!! I wish Good Luck to the couple.
Comment number: 105426798
Offensive? Report commentWell if shes happy with sleeping with someone who cheated on her well thats fine but as long as shes happy and doesnt care about what he as done anymore.
Comment number: 105427398
Offensive? Report commentJust what I thought, Cheryl was never going to leave Ashley, he earns too much !
Smart girl she'll hang on to him for a few years yet, have a kid or two then divorce him, 18 months of marriage and no kids, it wouldn't make sense to leave him. ITS ALL ABOUT THE MONEY !
All this publicity about her playing hard ball, and her face being on every magazine, traveling all over the world, that was just her PR telling her not to appear as the down trodden wife, that she's the independent woman, she may earn more than the average shop girl but her earnings don't touch that of Ashley's.
Mischon De Reya, ah just wait a couple of years and Cheryl will come knocking at your door with the kids in tow ....
Comment number: 105428936
Offensive? Report commentAshley Get a back bone for god sake man!!
Leave cheryl, more to Spain and live your life!!!
I don't support cheating but, It is usually because there are underlying problems in the relationship.
So what, he did it. It's over.
Cheryl your trying to make it look like he's the bad guy. But if you had been supportive and moved with him. you would not be suffering now. He was a footballer alot longer that you were apart of this band. Hde gave up his dream for you...too many sacrifices being made and not enough comprimise. I really do hope you read this...
No support here cheryl
Dumpling
Comment number: 105429282
Offensive? Report commentI feel really sorry for Cheryl and cant believe she is given him a chance. However, you dont know what you would do unless put in this position yourself. I am a great believer that when the trust is gone its gone and yes it might work for a while for them but the damage is done. This wont be the last time he will do it once a cheater always a cheater! It might make Cheryl not be so outspoken now as things shes mouthed off she wouldnt put up with well you know what they say people in glass houses shouldnt throw stones.
Comment number: 105431188
Offensive? Report commentGreat comments already and you are right, Cheryl has loved playing the hard as nails will-she/won't she take him back role for the media! She should have added to her list "No alcohol" as people often use this as an excuse to get up to no good. It was predictable that she would take him back despite knowing that leopards don't change their spots and that they'll be back in the papers for the same thing in a few years. Very boring for us. I just wish these daft women had the same guts as Chris Tarrent's wife. Who wants to sleep with a husband who has slept with a couple of ropey girls? There are clearly problems in the marriage or with Ashley himself. If he needs to play up to the adoring fans, then he should have remained single! Not too late mate.
Comment number: 105431232
Offensive? Report commentThe easiest decision is always the wrong one long term. Next time and there will be a next time it will be 100 times worse because friends and family just say 'I told you so'. Get rid move on and find Mr Right instead of being with Mr Wrong. a leopard never changes its spots!
Comment number: 105432718
Offensive? Report commentit wont work she will torture herself everytime she doesnt know where he is , what a shame such a lovely beautiful girl , he doesnt deserve her
Comment number: 105433230
Offensive? Report commentI definitely agree with some of the comments on here and it is all about the money.By putting all these demands on Ashley isn't going to make things better but worse. He knew what he was doing when he cheated on Cheryl, and by her taking him back he will not learn from this. Cheryl doesn't have any kids and she could easily move on from this.
Its sad when all these WAGS so easily put up with their celeb partners cheating e.g Coleen, Victoria,Charlotte etc. I can bet that if their partners were the average Joe with the average type jobs they would get rid. I can see it now- Cheryl and Ashley in the next few months doing a full page glossy spread in Hello/OK Magazine. They gaze into each others eyes looking all lovey-dovey then they talk about their upcoming plans on starting a family immediately and end up slating the other woman lol!
What an absolute joke they all are. Thats why women should never rely on a man for everything and should get their finances and self-esteem in order.
Comment number: 105435442
Offensive? Report commentits harder for them because its all in the public eye.This will be hard for cheryl but Ithink she will give him another try.I hope it works out for the two of them and i wish them all the best for the future.xxx
Comment number: 105437320
Offensive? Report commentmy god, dump that loser already. She is absolutely stunning. I saw her here in LA the other week and she looks even better in person than she does in pictures.
I'm sure there were plenty of rich fellas here who would be more than happy to line up for her.
Divorce Ashley, take half his bucks and find a man who isn't going to treat you like utter trash, Cheryl. (I give NOTW permission to give my e-mail addy to you so you can contact me first...man, I wish. :p )
Comment number: 105445130
Offensive? Report commenti think that if cheryl loves ashely ithink they should give it another go but also see a marriage councilor it is hard when some does the dirty on them i know i have been there but you just got to get there trust back. good luck
Comment number: 105448188
Offensive? Report commentAshley,are you a man or a mouse. okay,maybe you were out of order if you did what you are supposed to have done,but in my experience,whe a marriage breaks down,there is blame on both sides,and I get the impression that Cheryl is no saint.She strikes me as being overly controlling,bossy,and a little selfish and self centred.Give in now,Ash,and your life will never be your own again.She will drag uou around like a puppy on a lead,and despite what you may or may not have done,you deserve better.
Comment number: 105459904
Offensive? Report commentI don't think this marriage has much longer to go, to be honest. If Ashely has been cheating, this is wrong, but Cheryl either has to accept it's happened and get on with it or just get rid of him. If a partner set those kind of rules for me he would be out the door so fast. Is Cheryl becoming Ashely's mother!
Comment number: 105467604
Offensive? Report commentThe marriage will never be the as before. Cheryl will always remember what happened and Ashley will never be himself as he will always try to please. Is it worth it?
Comment number: 105470536
Offensive? Report commentcheryl cole, she is more ov a geordie bird than ever, being cheryl tweedie this chick has her own scruples about her, but now a cole it makes her tougher, she will stand her ground regardless, my son knows this young lady from way back, my son was and still is good friends with her brother, my son knows she wont take no crap from anyone, go cheryl go lass stand your ground, good luck and all the best for the future,you have made it girl, well done, my heart goes out to you, you will sort it on your grounds, or ashley is history, you do what you feel is right for you, remember geordie bird yo are no1.xxxx
Comment number: 105477948
Offensive? Report commentdear oh dear, the very act of setting these conditions indicates how far things have gone. Surely Ashley should have volunteered these conditions himself?
Cheryl has shown a combination of neediness and power-hunger by a) apparently falling apart after the Brits and b) imposing these conditions.
It doesn't seem a satisfactory basis for reconciliation.
Anyway, surely she deserves - and with her looks and success, can easily find - MUCH better?
To misquote Will Young, "I think ya better leave right now."
Comment number: 105484550
Offensive? Report commentThe poor deluded girl thinks her and "Cashley Cole" can be the new Posh and Becks which is why she'll probably take him back (like Victoria Beckham did). Dream on love, Becks is good looking and has a smidgeon of personality unlike "Wor Ashley". Dump him and move on whilst the goodwill is on your side
Comment number: 105547432
Offensive? Report commentChryle dear, he has done it once, he will strike again. If you can manage to leave the guy, do so otherwise be prepared to love like Mrs Beckham.
Comment number: 105817432
Offensive? Report commentI THINK CHERL IS CRAZY TO GET BACK WITH THAT TWO TIMING SWINE. HE IS COCKY AND ARROGANT. HE OBVIOUSLY DOES'NT HAVE ANY RESPECT FOR CHERL, CHEATING AND LIEING TO HER. IT WOULD HIT HIM WHERE IT HURTS IF SHE LEFT HIM. HE SEEMS TOO CONFIDENT HE WILL GET HER BACK.RULES WONT CHANGE WHAT HE DID RESTRICTING HIM WILL ONLY LEAD TO FURTHER ARGUMENTS ITS A NO WIN GET RID CHERL THERE ARE MILLIONS OF GUYS THAT WOULD LOVE TO DATE YOU. UR AT THE TOP OF THE FHM LIST FOR HEAVENS SAKE. U CAN DO SOOOOO MUCH BETTER.
Comment number: 105828504
Offensive? Report commentRun Ashley run.
Comment number: 106145130
Offensive? Report commentI couldn't be happier that Cheryl is going through this. Like attracts like. Being a selfish, rude, low-class jerk (remember her slapping a loo attendant?), of course she would be attracted to the same kind of person as herself. And as for Ashley being with her, no decent, good guy would be attracted to trash like her. She's not a figure of sympathy, she's just getting her dose of karma at last. What goes around comes around. When she married Ashley, she thought she got everything she wanted. She's finally gotten what she really DESERVED! Ha! Ha! And now the bully has exposed herself for the coward and lame loser she is, unable to have the dignity to walk away. But then again, dignity isn't in her vocabulary.
Comment number: 106347798
Offensive? Report commentNo offense, but the girl is an idiot. Once a cheat-always a cheat. He couldn't even be faithful within the first 18 months of their marriage, what makes her think that he will remain faithful for the next 50 years? To make it even worse, he had unprotected sex. I hope she was tested for AIDS and every other STD that is out there. I was a fan and respected her a great deal for all her 'talk', but come to find out, that is all it was, just 'talk'. They deserve each other. I can guarantee that he will cheat again-MARK MY WORDS.
Comment number: 106408236
Offensive? Report commenti have been in the same position i was with my man from 18 had 2 kids thought this was it he'll never be unfaithful but he was when i was pregnant. i was so angry just wanted the world to stop but when i got over the anger i forgave him and now we are married with 5 kids and guess what i really belive he has changed he has grown up and i know he loves me. but like cheryl i do wonder sometimes if hell do it again but thats a chance i have to take. good luck to ya cheryl and behave ashley you have a great girl who is beatiful why cheat?